Is it Wrong If I Somethimes Wonder?

Is it wrong if I sometimes wonder if my mother had married the wrong man. I wonder if she sometimes secretly wonders that herself. My father is a great man but different than my mother's old soul. my mom is gentle and need a someone who listens to her with compaction. Admiration for her spiritual soft heart. no one is this family gives this woman the respect she deserves especially not me. she deserves more than we give her and more compaction and respect than my father gives her. she lets us step over her. it's wrong .I believe my dad is amazing but does not meet the emotional need my mom needs.

 

my mom is an amazing mom. her dad is a shit of a parent. He hasn't given a shit about her in twenty year and all of a sudden he cares to see her so badly that he happily excepts my mom to buy him and his new daughter ticket to Israel. quite convenient of him since he always wanted to take Alina on vacation to Israel. even happy for my mom to pay for his renal care. last I saw him he thought my little cousin was me. he had no damn idea what i even looked like. and worse he forgets my little cousins name. after 13 years of not seeing her grandfather, he stood right Infront of her looked her dead in the eyes." finally grandpa gives a shit" but he looked her straight in the face and couldn't remember her name. the audacity he has to all of a sudden give a shit when his daughter pays. I bet you till this day he doesn’t know his grandchildren's names. the man is not sick. unlike a lot of eighty-year-olds he is a healthy man. no altsimers. just doesn't care. but gives enough of a shit to care when the check comes around. he may be my mother's dad but he sure as hell is never getting the term "grandpa" from me. 

he doesn't know the first thing about me either than the fact that I am my mother's daughter

I tell him" go get a life" but he already did, with his new wife and kid.